Pegging will turn me gay?

The answer if yes, of course… wrong!!! It's not even a question that makes sense to ask.

There is a big prejudice and some confusion between sexual preferences and relational preferences. I typically like women and that doesn't make me like anal play any more or less.

How many times has a partner thought about playing with our anus? Many more times than we imagine, maybe even the same number of times we think about playing with our partner's.

But I think the first step is important, the separation between our sexual preferences, the parts of the body we like to have stimulated, and our relational preferences, the gender of people with whom we want to have those sexual preferences satisfied.

I like kissing, I like touching tongues with my tongue, I like genital stimulation, I like anal stimulation, with whom? Typically women. I don't understand why this prejudice still exists.

M challenged me, or I challenged her, I don't even know anymore, I just know her eyes sparkled when the idea came up. The technical name is pegging, pegging is a sexual practice where a person penetrates their partner anally using a strap-on dildo. Typically, it involves a woman penetrating a man, but it can occur between any genders.

We went to choose a double dildo that could be used for pegging, I liked the sharing of pleasure too. The choice was obvious as soon as we saw it, the Share Lite Double Dildo from Fun Factory!

Fun Factory is a German company known for its high-quality, innovative sex toys. Founded in 1996, Fun Factory focuses on creating products that combine pleasure, functionality, and design. It’s the Mercedes of sex toys.

M and I like to experiment, to challenge each other, and this was one of those cases. When the Share Lite Double Dildo arrived, the excitement was high. We thought it wouldn't fit... in either of us. The material of the toy was excellent, which didn't surprise me. We read the manual, but it was clear which part went where. Excited, we opened it; we had to try it out.

We went to get the lubricant. I usually use BIOAQUA Natural, which I recently discovered was nominated for best lubricant at the XBIZ AWARDS. We applied it on both sides. I briefly considered using a thicker lubricant for anal play, but this one served our moment of urgency.

M inserted it and looked at me challengingly; I responded by moving closer to her. We thought the best position would be from behind, but we wanted to look into each other's eyes. I lay down, lifted my legs, and M approached. As I have little experience with anal play, M was careful, entering slowly, and it went in. It fit, in me and in her, and we felt in a moment of shared experience our pleasure, the love of sharing our fantasies and turning them into projects.

The Share Lite Double Dildo managed to stay in place in this position; in others, it might be more challenging, but we thought it did its job. Of course, it didn't stay locked in the drawer; there are times when our eyes sparkle, and we go after it.